Is this a sign of an insecure person or is she controlling?

ummm you being a jerk? what crap. shes just being dumb. no offense to her or anything. but because you didnt call, she didnt pick up for a week? thats just insane. atleast you still called at some point. isnt that good enough? and feeling threatened by a pretty girl. . . .if she knows that yo like her, then she should just be whatever. answer to your question: both, insecure about the girls and all. controlling about being precise on time. etc.